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Have you ever wondered what it would be like if you didn’t have be concerned about your weight or your health? Just imagine it. You could eat as many potato chips as you wanted and your weight and health wouldn’t be affected, no matter what you do. There would be no concerns about heart attacks or acid reflux disease. What if you just knew, without a doubt, that you would never get cancer. Can you imagine how you would feel not having to be concerned about any of these health problems?

What if we were to tell you that it is possible through the Law of Attraction?

As human beings, we are programmed to survive. Each generation of family confronts and lives in a different kind of environment. Back in the old days most people lived a rural life. They had to survive in the coldest of winters, before there was electricity or toilets, but their home life was much simpler and health and mental issues weren’t as pervasive. Nowadays, we live in a world that is much different, and in some ways more difficult to survive in. While we have heaters, lights, and modern day bathrooms, we are dealing with so much more mental stress and that is taxing on our bodies. The mental stress that a lot of people are under these days, can cause health issues. We have so many more people with diabetes and high blood pressure; more than we have ever seen.

What is happening to our society and how can we change these health problems?

Relieving mental stress is a good place to start, and is just as important as physical exercise. When you relieve that stress, you go into a calmer state and then the Law of Attraction takes over, ensuring that you have calmer times ahead.

Many people work over forty hours a week and return home exhausted and worried. This kind of pressure is hard on the body and the mind as well. So how can we change this without the many medications that are actually doing nothing more than masking the core problem? By teaching others how to use the Law of Attraction as a way to help ease pain and stress.

This sounds like an easy fix, and it can be, but most people can’t accept that just changing their way of thinking and focusing can change their overall mental and physical health.

When you concentrate on how hard you feel your life is, you emit feelings that are extremely strong. These feelings create more situations that attract back to you. As these feelings build, day after day, they manifest into a recurring pattern that you may manifest within your body, possibly in the form of illness or disease.

How can you help ease your stress?

Take some time to think about what you want out of life and what you are thankful for. Watch a funny movie. Walk to the park. Play with your puppy. Meditate. Use as many ‘feel good’ moments as you can, but most of all be grateful for what you have in life. Even if it is something small, start there. Grateful feelings will lift your mind’s vibration and even if it is just a little bit, it is good for your body.

Being a healthier you doesn’t always mean running laps. Being a healthier you includes thinking about your mental health and reducing your stress level. Through the Law of Attraction, you can obtain anything you desire and that includes better health and less stress. Make a conscious effect to ‘feel’ good. Even when you are under stress, tell yourself to let it go and let the Universe take care of whatever the issue is that is causing your stress. By just letting it go, you are telling the Universe that you trust it to take care of the situation. You no longer have to worry about it. And you’ll find when you ‘let go’ you will have more energy and a healthier outlook on your life.

Keep your eyes on the calmer, serene life and let go of your stress.

Be a healthier you through the Law of Attraction.

Let’s discuss the word ‘need’ opposed to ‘want’. Remember, it isn’t the word itself that you are avoiding, it is the feeling attached to the word. When you say that you ‘need’ to buy some groceries, use of the word isn’t going to affect your world by turning it upside down with ‘need’. It’s when you use the word ‘need’ in a sentence like this: I ‘need’ so much money that I don’t ever know how I will pay off these bills! When using the word ‘need’ with feeling attached, you are emphatically expressing what you don’t want to the Universe.

The Universe will act upon your feelings and your ‘don’t wants’ and bring to you exactly what you don’t want which in the example above is money.

When you have expressed such a strong feeling, do your best to change the sentence for yourself. “I may have bills but I know that they will be paid and that is what I ‘want’ so I will trust the Universe in bringing to me just that.”

Then…let it go and just trust the Law of Attraction to work for you. This can be applied to anything that you want to obtain.

Using the word ‘want’ seems to work well. When you tell the Universe that you want something from a positive standpoint, you will receive what you want. Be clear in your wants and concentrate on your ‘wants’ and not your ‘needs’. When you have one of those desperate moments and you bellow out what you need, try to turn it around into a want or desire. This can be done pretty easily and you will see that once you turn it into a positive, it will feel good. Here’s an example: “I want my car to work. I want a perfectly running car. Thanks Universe!” Opposed to: “I need this car. I need everything to run right!” Can you hear the difference in the feeling?

The Universe acts on your feelings and whatever images you have in your mind at that time. So if you have an image of a broken down car in your mind and you are feeling ‘need’, guess what will happen? If you have an image of a broken car fixed and feel trust and faith in the Law of Attraction, the Universe will respond with your want. It’s that simple.

Anytime you feel that you ‘need’ something, it is a ‘don’t want’ and will cause resistance. It’s like you are pushing against what you truly want. When you push against something, you are resisting what you want and the Universe will comply with your command and bring you resistance. If you don’t ‘need’ something and just want it and know you will have it, you are going with the flow. There is no pushing and the Universe will bring you what you want via the Law of Attraction.

The Law of Attraction really is easy to comprehend. By seeing what you want, feeling what you want, and providing no resistance against your desires, you will have your desires. By ’stewing’ and ‘needing’ a desire, you are setting yourself up to receive more to ’stew about’ and ‘need’.

So what will you choose to do? Will you choose to push against your want or ‘go with the flow’ of your want?

If you are a practitioner of the Law of Attraction you know what is best for you in order to obtain what you desire. By knowing just a few little tricks about feelings and certain words, you will be ahead of the game in attaining those wants and desires.

When applying the Law of Attraction, it always comes back to you and your perception. Everything and everyone you encounter in your life, you have intentionally or unintentionally attracted into your world.

You may be saying to yourself, “There is no way that I attracted that mean old man who yelled at me for passing him on the road.” Believe it or not, at some time you produced an emotion that attracted that experience to you. And it didn’t take just one thought and one feeling to cause the experience to attract to you. It came from a repetitious thought and feeling over time. Everything that comes into your world is always attracted from a thought and feeling that you are possessing or have possessed.

When you experience a day when everyone seems to mirror the same kind of mood, whether crabby or happy, frustrated or serene, take a look at yourself. People who are in your life whether for just a moment or everyday, are a reflection of what or who you are attracting. All that we are, in fact, is a direct result of what we have thought.

Is there any control over where our lives are lead through the Law of Attraction? Yes, there is. Begin to take responsibility for your life. Realize that you have created everything that is in your life, and that it is just as easy to create a life that you want.

By looking at what is around you, you are able to tell what direction you are headed through the people that come into your life, and by how you react to them. You can also tell which direction you are headed by the situations that seem to be attracting to you as well.

Let’s say you have been maintaining a clear image of a fulfilling relationship. During your visualization time you continually get interrupted by some negative feelings and thoughts of your old flame, and his or her bad habits, but you continue to visualize.

The next week you discover your e-dating service connects someone who is interested in meeting you. So you hook up the date and you go and meet him/her. Ten minutes into the date you realize that she/he is just like your old flame.

Now this is pretty obvious. By what you are attracting you are not heading in the right direction. Sure, you were visualizing clearly but with muddled feelings of an old relationship thrown into the stew pot. The Universe is letting you know that you are attracting what you are thinking and feeling and this is what you are attracting. The great thing about this scenario is that you receive a clear indicator that you want to build some better feelings and thoughts for your clear image.

Be aware of what the Universe is telling you and indicating to you and adjust your thoughts and feelings accordingly. Every incident, every person, every circumstance all comes back to you.

Take your clear image and create clearer, more wonderful feelings to go with that image. When you leave behind all the past events and people that have had a negative pull on your life, you will attract people free of that negative pull. But you must first start with yourself. Take inventory of what feelings and thoughts you want as much as the ones you don’t, and stick to a clear image. Then take notes from the Universe when it shows you that you have attracted something you don’t want.

Become clearer in your image and feelings of what you do want. You can’t go wrong if you listen and see the indicators that the Universe gives as it steers you to where you want to be. The Law of Attraction never fails.

People will usually get interested in the law of attraction with the intention of learning how to manifest the things that they desire most in life. You may have seen the movie, the Secret and got excited at the idea of being able to manifest your desires that you NEVER thought were possible. For most people, this excitement fades when they realize that they are not going to have their dream car in a week or two.

How can you learn how to manifest with the law of attraction?

You have to understand that this is not a get rich quick or results overnight process. While some people DO experience some very quick results, most people do not. You have to be patient when using the law of attraction. Another common stumbling block is that most people believe that they do not have to do anything at all and things will just start to appear.

Wouldn’t that be nice?

However, this is not really how it works. The law of attraction HAS to work with cause and effect. This means that to get the result or the effect that you desire, then you have to supply the cause. This usually means that you will have to take some sort of action in order to attract what you want.

Anyone can learn how to manifest with the law of attraction. You have to learn the process that works and then take action on that process to manifest your desires. Anything else is just wishful thinking.

Would you like to learn more about how to manifest with the law of attraction?

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As you sit there and read the beginning of this report you start to feel that a home business is not for everyone. Making a decision to work from home is a risk for some people who want to change their present situation. It is a big step, but can be very rewarding if you equip yourself with the mental capacity for lifelong wealth and prosperity.

The following is a quote by Bill Harris, the creator of Holosync and a featured teacher in The Secret, Bill has taught hundreds of thousands of people how to harness The Law of Attraction to make lasting improvements in their lives.

“…THE KEY to getting anything done in the world, including making money:

“For any outcome you want, there is a certain way of THINKING and ACTING that will get it for you. You have to find that way of thinking and acting, and then ADOPT IT.”

Burn this into your brain. There is no other way to accomplish something in the world. No other way. Right now, you are getting the results you’re experiencing because they are the direct result of the way you are currently thinking and acting. To get different results, that way of thinking and acting is going to have to change. There is no other way.”

The Law of Attraction applies to all situations in life and business is no different. Believing in yourself and being able to persevere despite all odds is a prerequisite. This concept and that of business gives you control over your money, control over your life and freedom to do whatever you desire.

Attracting the business that is right for your skills, experience and training is the key to making the Law of Attraction work for you. You never want to choose a home-based business that does not make you feel passionate and motivated. Your emotions can tell you exactly what business you should be in. If you can answer honestly to the question, “Is this right for me?,” then you will be likely to get the right answer.

By asking questions that force you to give an answer honestly, then you will allow the Law of Attraction to effectively work in your life. You will encourage yourself to expand your mindset and FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT. You are now acting as your own coach where your focus will shift to the possibilities and not the impossibilities.

If negative feelings surface, it may mean that you are fearful about starting a business and leaving the security of a job. This is when you have to look at the positives of owning a business like the flexibility, freedom and income potential it will offer you compared to your day job. Remember, this is something you can start part-time and then transition to full-time when you see the money start coming in.

If you focus on the positive, you will attract positive results. If you have a purpose in mind and aim to fulfill it, you will be able to choose the business that is right for you.

Start with your skills and talents. You can never go wrong with what you already know. With this in mind, what you know will attract what you want. Write down a plan of action and start with the basics. Paint a visual picture in your mind of what you want. This will help you attain your Definite Purpose faster.

If you have the sense of purpose to know exactly what you want in a home-based business, you don’t have to look very far because everything starts in the mind and how you envision it to be. You will just attract more of it, if you put your thought and focus on it.

Using the Law of Attraction is not just getting lucky. It is about defining what you want and thinking about it long enough to create a mental awareness of what you need to do to accomplish it. Once you keep taking some action, the rest will follow. It is just that simple. In short, you attract situations into your life that help you achieve your goals.

Your mind might want to resist something as new to it as the Law of Attraction, but you only need to keep focused on the end result. Where are you and where are you going? Write down your goals, visualize and act on your goals everyday. See yourself owning that business, getting up when you want to, seeing your car parked in the garage while others are going to work, see yourself at a business lunch with a client and see yourself sitting in front of your computer each day accomplishing your day’s goal.

We see and experience the world, not as it is, but as we are. We literally create our own reality.

Will it take work? Yes. Is there a small learning curve? Yes. But can you do it? YES!

“The first and best victory is to conquer self.” – Plato

So you are doing everything that you have read about in applying the Law of Attraction. You’re focusing on your wants and trying not to get upset with your everyday circumstances that just happen. You’re looking for every sign of encouragement that the Universe sends your way. You’re being as patient as you can and you’re visualizing ’til the cows come home. You’re mentally exhausted from watching every thought and feeling that you come across. Now what?

Many people actually feel this way. They try so hard to apply the Law of Attraction and that is actually the problem. They are trying too hard.

The Law of Attraction is really a simple law but being human, we tend to complicate things.

You want to “just be” when using the Law of Attraction intentionally. Get a clear image in your head of what you desire. Create this image as if you are the architect planning a new home construction. Be excited about it and get as focused as possible. Every evening take some time to yourself where you can really focus on your image. Imagine having your desire, imagine what you are wearing, imagine it is happening right now, imagine going through the physical steps of the image, and then… let it go and just be. Putting all that strong feeling intention into your desire has started the motor running. The Universe has a good idea of what you want.

When you wake up in the morning and you have the time, you should focus again upon your desire. But even if you don’t have time for a second round think only of your desire with excitement when you do think of it.

If you begin to think how you don’t have your desire, you are focusing on your ‘don’t want’ and that will bring you what you don’t want. All through the day, when the thought of your desire comes to mind, think of it in the now and with happiness and joy that it is manifesting, and then let go and just be. Make sure that you focus once a day on what it is that you want and if you can focus more, go for it.

Just by having one visualization session a day, your desire will come to you as long as you don’t put any negative toward it. If you are feeling down and you think of your desire, you are sabotaging its arrival. Only think of your desire with joy.

You don’t have to watch every little thought that pops into your head in order for your desire to come to you. Just enjoying your day and expressing gratitude about life will do wonders. Trying too hard and watching every thought is actually attracting situations of control and of trying too hard.

Let the impatience go and let the Universe do its job. Just relax and enjoy life knowing full well the Universe is handling all that needs to be handled in order for you to have what you desire. Your job is to visualize and just be and the Universe’s job is to take care of the how. Let go of the control and micro managing and let the Universe do its job through the Law of Attraction.

Although the movie “The Secret” was a huge success, it was more or less just another money maker for those involved. For many viewers it is just too good to be true. It is full of hype and promises that are unrealistic for our current stage of human development. It is a loaded gun placed in the hands of infants. Most are not mentally ready for it.

The movie represents a process that can and does work, but only when it has been fully understood, developed, and refined. It is millennia ahead of our current abilities as a species. The Law of Attraction is at work every day in our lives and as the movie points out, we create what we think and that can be dangerous on a conscious level.

The reason it will not work for most people on a conscious level is because humanity has disempowered itself for centuries. Humanity was and is born with the knowledge of the “law” but from birth the power is systematically taken away from us. The power always remains with us, but it is never developed or talked about. Infants are taught not to use it and to be submissive and obedient. Religion is the greatest distracter for The Law of Attraction. Those who would have power over us to not want us to use our power because in doing so, we disempower them. I further explain this in my book “Led Down The Garden Path” due to be published in early spring of 2008.

The movie does not go far enough; it presents the end results of a system of creation, but does not educate the viewer or take them to it. It is a slick Ferrari with too much power and no training. It is an idea that gives too little for too many without explanation of why it won’t work for most. More or less it gives you a glossy picture of a finished computer and no schematics or instructions on how to build or use it – a box full of parts. It is just too overwhelming for most.

I am living proof that the law of attraction works, and for almost sixty years it has been working in the background, in the subconscious. It has only been in the last eight years that I have started to learn about how it works and why it does not work consciously for some. In hindsight most of us can see how it has worked for us in our personal lives. My own story about bringing Perthes disease into my life and curing myself a year later is a dramatic story of how the “law” works. It is chronicled in my book “Your Life Was Never Meant to be a Struggle”.

What has triggered this article was a book I received recently from an author for review. The author failed over several years to control the process and has written an angry and embittered book about how it does not work. The first few chapters are filled with emotion; hurt, anger, disappointment and bitterness. But it becomes very apparent in the early parts of the book why the author was unable to consciously work the law. There are huge gaps in her education about who she is and her true nature. It is like a bird that can’t fly because it doesn’t know it is a bird. Likewise the law will not work for most because most people don’t know who they naturally are. Without the understanding of who we are and our own capabilities; we will not be able to fly either. The movie should have come with a warning; not suitable for all audiences viewer discretion is advised.

Most people would not know themselves as creating miracles because they do not know themselves as God and they believe that only God can create miracles. It is the same with the “Law of Attraction;” it does not work until you know that you are the creator of the end result – what it is you want!

The secret to “The Secret” is that you can not have what you want while you are wanting it nor you can not have what you want while you are trying to create it. The law requires complete acceptance that you have what you desire. This aspect of the law is too simple for a race that requires complicated explanations. It is important to repeat it here again. “You cannot have what you want, nor can you have what you want while you are trying to create it”

“You can do this and more” is a line that Christianity should recognize. Although religion is not an aspect of “The Law of Attraction” Christianity does support the “law” in the line from the Bible that was spoken by Jesus. “The faith of a mustard seed” is the fundamental secret of the “law”. A mustard seed has no faith; it has knowing. The evolution of the mustard seed is programmed into it – it is all about knowing. Knowing is absolute, and if you know a thing it becomes your new truth. And to know a thing, you must know that you are the creator of that knowing. Know this to be true and you will have the secret for success and the only thing that makes the “Law of Attraction” work.

In the natural universe there is only knowing; laws are created by man because that is what he does, because he is a creative being. The only purpose to physical life is the desire to experience. The law of attraction gives humanity a tool that can create on demand and consciously when it is understood and accepted. Distracters of the law simply are not there yet – they are not ready. More over, they do not want anyone else to be able to use it either.

It is very obvious in this world that there are many areas of enlightenment. Some are more advanced than others. That is neither good nor bad, it simply is a truth, it is observable, and it is appropriate. All things have the ability to evolve and they do in turn, when they are ready. I don’t believe there are levels of enlightenment, just areas of enlightenment. Each run on the ladder is a step, a place that each of us experiences one way or the other until we get to where we want to be.

Each one of us possesses all the tools to have all that we desire in our lives through intentionally applying the Law of Attraction. So can you imagine what it would be like to be a child of the Law of Attraction; to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally from childhood? Think of how wonderful life would be, and life’s bumps would seem less potent.

Children naturally live the LOA until they begin to communicate and are told by others what is right and wrong for them. So how do you raise a child to understand and apply the Law of Attraction without encouraging and creating a little monster with no manners? Just because you are teaching them to apply the LOA doesn’t mean you let them get away with everything because you thing you might be encroaching upon their world.

Children are like the intuitive mind. That is where they live until we show them the logical mind. We continually teach them about the logical mind and what we perceive is right or wrong, and parents teach their children what to be afraid of and what dangers there are through their own life perceptions. Your children get this passed on to them, just like it was passed on to you.

But how wonderful would it be to teach our children how to use their intuitive minds as well as the logical mind while putting more emphasis on the intuitive? Let’s teach our children how to create without fear so when they grow up that is all they know. They could become the great creators of their lives and have all they desire…love, gratitude, joy, health, financial abundance, relationships, career, just like they would want it. And just like you want it for them.

Every one of us carries baggage of some sort and even if we aren’t responsible for it, our children will most likely inherit the same baggage. But if they are equipped with the tools to teach them how to release their baggage early on, they will avoid dragging a baggage cart through life. Let’s teach our children the Law of Attraction now so they can have a Law of Attraction lifetime of intentional creation.

Children learn by example. The best thing you can do for your child is to show how to live life joyously and be grateful for their lives. By observing how you live through the Law of Attraction, your child will begin to create perceptions of life. Make sure you are applying the Law of Attraction intentionally so they will ‘perceive’ how life works. Then when they become adults, they will apply the LOA effortlessly.

You will have shown them how to live life gratefully, effortlessly, and with love through the Law of Attraction.

Just the other day I was riding in the car with a friend of mine. She was talking about how well she practices the Law of Attraction but she can’t seem to get things to go how she wants them. Then the subject changed to her boyfriend and that’s when I found out she was an Armchair LOA Practitioner (or ALOAP)!

Many people love the concept of the Law of Attraction: “Think about what you want and it comes right to you…wow…what a concept!” But as we all know there is much more to it than just thinking. There are the many negative emotions we have to be careful of; the thinking and feeling of being grateful in what is sometimes a less-than-grateful situation, focusing on your desires (not on the don’t wants of life), living a joyful life in spite of what is seemingly around you, releasing negative mental patterns, and being ready to take action when the Universe provides you a perfect opportunity for your desire to manifest.

These are just a few of the many steps in the Law of Attraction. Some people decide that they will quit whenever applying the Law of Attraction intentionally seems to become a more little complicated. But in fact it is all very simple…you have to work on your inner self and then your outer world will become what you feel from within.

When my friend began to talk about her boyfriend she told me how arrogant he could be when he is on the phone with customers. (He’s in marketing) She said it upsets her so much and they argue about it. Then she says to me, “But I allow. I practice the LOA with him so I am allowing. Not condoning, mind you, but allowing his thoughts.” Then she proceeds to tell me that he frustrates her when he doesn’t call when he is going to be late.

My friend is an Armchair Law of Attraction Practitioner. My ALOAP friend talks about her boyfriend negatively and puts all those feelings and thoughts out to the Universe and then says that she ‘allows’ him to be who he is. Then she continues to tell how wrong he is. She is not allowing. Allowing means to observe another’s behavior and let them be who they are without any opinion from you and ‘letting their behavior go’ so that it doesn’t affect your world that you create.

An ALOAP knows all the buzz words and knows what should be focused on but doesn’t put any of it into action. They just say what they know about the Law of Attraction without taking any of the steps to apply it.

You have to be an active part of the Law of Attraction. Applying the Law of Attraction intentionally is only theory until you practice what you preach. Sure the Law of Attraction works whether you apply it or not but when you begin to delve into what it takes to intentionally apply it; there is work to be done on the inner you.

It won’t get done by sitting in the armchair and pontificating about how well the Law of Attraction will work. Take action, apply the LOA, and your life will become the life that you have always dreamed of.

How do we get better at positive manifesting? We keep learning and applying what we learn.  That’s the only way to do it.

Instinctually we all know how to manifest. We manifest stuff we do and don’t want every day. We’re just a million times better at manifesting what we don’t want which is why we’re always saying ‘I knew that would happen!’ or ‘Can’t anything ever go right for me?’

If everyone could only realized that just saying and thinking those common negative phrases is making everything we don’t want manifest over and over again, then we could get rid of those sayings completely and start to turn all of our lives around.

We’re pros at manifesting being late for an appointment or our order coming back wrong. Are you one of those people who never receives your order the way you want it, whether it’s at a restaurant or just a delivery from a store?

If you are then congratulations, you really are a pro at manifesting.

It’s easier for us to manifest the negative things because we really believe they are going to happen.

I’m not sure when it becomes ingrained in us that we can’t obtain everything we want whether it be the perfect career, house, partner, education, and on and on. All I know for sure is that it’s complete crap.

All those things you want are obtainable and all you have to do is start working your way towards it.

You can’t manifest something without putting the effort in and really believing that you are going to reach your end goal. And all the effort in the world is not going to get you there if you don’t believe you deserve it.

I don’t care whether you are a doctor, a rocket scientist, or a fast food employee. Everyone deserves to have whatever makes them happy and everyone can obtain happiness. We are all equal.

Having doubt about receiving what you want happens to everyone but if you take you thoughts and detour them around your doubt than you will end up at your goal.

The more you learn about positive manifesting, the more you will apply what you learn, and the more you will see your positive manifestations come true.

Start living the life you want to live and not the life you’re expected to live.