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When applying the Law of Attraction, it always comes back to you and your perception. Everything and everyone you encounter in your life, you have intentionally or unintentionally attracted into your world.

You may be saying to yourself, “There is no way that I attracted that mean old man who yelled at me for passing him on the road.” Believe it or not, at some time you produced an emotion that attracted that experience to you. And it didn’t take just one thought and one feeling to cause the experience to attract to you. It came from a repetitious thought and feeling over time. Everything that comes into your world is always attracted from a thought and feeling that you are possessing or have possessed.

When you experience a day when everyone seems to mirror the same kind of mood, whether crabby or happy, frustrated or serene, take a look at yourself. People who are in your life whether for just a moment or everyday, are a reflection of what or who you are attracting. All that we are, in fact, is a direct result of what we have thought.

Is there any control over where our lives are lead through the Law of Attraction? Yes, there is. Begin to take responsibility for your life. Realize that you have created everything that is in your life, and that it is just as easy to create a life that you want.

By looking at what is around you, you are able to tell what direction you are headed through the people that come into your life, and by how you react to them. You can also tell which direction you are headed by the situations that seem to be attracting to you as well.

Let’s say you have been maintaining a clear image of a fulfilling relationship. During your visualization time you continually get interrupted by some negative feelings and thoughts of your old flame, and his or her bad habits, but you continue to visualize.

The next week you discover your e-dating service connects someone who is interested in meeting you. So you hook up the date and you go and meet him/her. Ten minutes into the date you realize that she/he is just like your old flame.

Now this is pretty obvious. By what you are attracting you are not heading in the right direction. Sure, you were visualizing clearly but with muddled feelings of an old relationship thrown into the stew pot. The Universe is letting you know that you are attracting what you are thinking and feeling and this is what you are attracting. The great thing about this scenario is that you receive a clear indicator that you want to build some better feelings and thoughts for your clear image.

Be aware of what the Universe is telling you and indicating to you and adjust your thoughts and feelings accordingly. Every incident, every person, every circumstance all comes back to you.

Take your clear image and create clearer, more wonderful feelings to go with that image. When you leave behind all the past events and people that have had a negative pull on your life, you will attract people free of that negative pull. But you must first start with yourself. Take inventory of what feelings and thoughts you want as much as the ones you don’t, and stick to a clear image. Then take notes from the Universe when it shows you that you have attracted something you don’t want.

Become clearer in your image and feelings of what you do want. You can’t go wrong if you listen and see the indicators that the Universe gives as it steers you to where you want to be. The Law of Attraction never fails.

Enhance your power to manifest the life of your dreams using these ten creative methods:
1) Keep the end in mind. Ask yourself, what specific quality of life will the object of my desire bring to me? Why do I want this? Will it bring more Love, Harmony, Joy, Peace, Wisdom or Prosperity? Once you identify your real goal, do your best to assimilate that quality without the object and you will be deliberating achieving a vibrational harmony with the object you desired in the first place. When you acquire vibrational harmony or magnetic sameness with your desire – the object of your desire or something better HAS to come into your life – for it is the Law!
2) Identify what you want. The number one rule to Manifesting your Dreams is to “keep your eye on the ball.” The Universe does not process negatives – only energy. Therefore the question to ponder is “What do I want?” The question is NOT “What do I not want?” except to identify more of what you DO want.
3) Expect your dreams to come true. Expectation propels your desire and opens the runway for your dreams to land quickly, easily and gently. Additionally, with expectation as your fire, you will be less likely to run out of “desire fuel”!
4) Imagine it in the now. Imagine how it FEELS to have what you desire RIGHT NOW! Abraham through Jerry and Esther Hicks says, “Your point of attraction is now.” Therefore, whatever you are feeling and focused upon right now is what you are in vibrational harmony with and are attracting into your life.
5) Be energy efficient – be conscious of your “energy.” Keep in mind that like energy attracts like energy – therefore “what you sow you shall reap.” Feeling the lack of something only attracts more “lack of that something.” On the other hand, deliberately choosing positive feelings and focal points will keep you in alignment with your desires.
6) Maintain a laser focus on what you want. Give it your attention. Use tools such as setting goals, writing and repeating affirmations, visualization, gratitude journalizing, creative collage, treasure mapping, creation wheels and meditation. Relax, listen to yourself, state the affirmation and visualize the accompanying action and feeling. Remember, “Wherever you go, there you are!” – therefore, BE mentally and emotionally where you want to GO physically.
7) Be unattached. Maintain your desires but be unattached to the specifics of the outcome. Never limit the Universe by being disappointed if it isn’t in your life right now or isn’t coming as fast as you think it should. Be careful of being attached to the how, when, where, and who details. Turn it over to God and release your dream with statements such as “This or something better is manifesting in my life right now. I let it go and prepare to receive my good.” ALLOW the universe to let it flow to you easily!
Go on an appreciation rampage and preserve an attitude of gratitude. Relish the moment and be appreciative of all that you have. Be aware of every opportunity that comes your way and honor where you are on your path. Look at each experience as neither good nor bad, but as an opportunity to learn and grow. Don’t scold yourself when you make a mistake. Develop an affirmative statement describing your correct performance in the present tense, and allow your light to shine! See through the eyes of love. Choose to live in joy and spread it to all you meet!
9) Let Go of the past and follow your heart! Once and for all. Release the fears and prejudices that come from previous experiences. “Heaven’s not beyond the clouds; it’s just beyond our fears.” Regret and fear are the thieves that rob us of today. Accept responsibility for your life. Know that there are no victims. This means really forgive and forget, live without opinions, throw out your old baggage and live fully present in the moment at hand while following your heart’s guidance and desires for tomorrow. Your heart will never speak in fear – only in love. Follow your heart and you will have all that you desire.
10) Dream big! Ask for more than you “need.” You are the child of a rich father in heaven – claim your Divine birthright to unlimited Prosperity, Peace, Joy, Love and Harmony. Ask for all that you desire (in alignment with your values) and have the faith to relax and enjoy the journey. “I tell you the Truth, If ye have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, move from here to there: And it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” Matthew 17:20

How can you make relationships work better and how can you attract the right people into your life? The answer for you could be that you can use the Law of Attraction to attract more of the people you want into your life and less of the people you do not want.
It is all about vibrations and the way you think about relationships that brings to you what you want. The law of attraction could also be viewed as the law of love. What it means is that like attracts like. The reason many people are experiencing such difficulties in relationships is not because they’re bad persons. They could actually be really nice people, but it is their predominant mental disposition that gets them in trouble.
This may have been true for you in your past. But now you can learn how to attract the right kind of people into your life so that you can have truly lasting and great relationships.
Here are 3 tips of what you can do to get started on the right tract:
1. You need to meditate to get to know yourself. Get to know the secret person inside of you and learn to love yourself! Take a good look in the mirror and find as many things as you can that you like about yourself. Sit down and write out a list. Try to find 100 things you can like about yourself and list them all. Only if you can love yourself you are able to love someone else. Love is the highest vibration in the universe and the Law of Attraction is also called the Law of Love. Great relationships are built on trust and love! On top of that, you can’t expect others to love you if you don’t love yourself. This is not a conceited love, but a healthy love of self.
2. Make a list of what kind of hobbies you like or would like. Then go out and enjoy yourself. If you can’t take a vacation to Hawaii right now, what’s the next best thing that you can do right now? Figure it out and then go out and do it. Life is about passion, enjoyment and love.
3. If you’re currently in a relationship, sit down and find 100 things you like about your current partner or spouse. We tend to see faults and flaws so easily, but how many good things can you find and appreciate about the person you’re with now? And as you do this on a regular basis, you will start to find that this person seems a lot more loving, a lot easier to get along with, and you’ll begin to manifest more of the law of attraction. If you’re single and looking for a mate, then sit down and write out your idea of the perfect mate. Don’t be afraid to do this, even if you think that you’ll never attract such a person, just write it out and find your ground. The results that you are getting may surprise you. This will help you to be more focused on what kind of person you want to attract into your life. It will help you to make better choices when it comes to relationships and it will help to attract the person that you want into your life with the Law of Attraction.
4. After you have done this get into the feeling of having a wonderful relationship. Then, go out and do something. Join a bowling league, volunteer at a charitable organization, join a walk-a-thon, visit your local bookstore, get involved where there are people with the same interests as you. Your vibrations are depending on your feelings, whatever feelings you have you will vibrate and the Law of Attraction will bring the right match back to you. You will attract what you are vibrating.
Relationships that do not work can be in your past. The Law of Attraction is a powerful force in every person’s life on this earth. Most people are not aware of this and maybe you did not know about the Law of Attraction until just recently.
Harness its power and enjoy relationships that truly work!

If we all watched and applied the principals of The Secret why do we not have those stashes of cash, 100 foot yachts, and sprawling mansions? If you watched or read The Secret and had the slightest hint that there just might be something missing . . . you are 100% correct. This type of metaphysical manifestation is an absolutely great start and while it certainly does carry all the exciting energy to make it a very profitable publication it lacks a lot of important information and details.

Manifestation is deeply rooted in our soul’s evolution which is subject to universal law and karma not only form this life but others as well, as well as inherited karma. We will save the inherited karma lesson for another article. First, it is important to realize we that all come into this world to learn certain lesions. One of the keys to manifesting is to know and understand your karma and dharma.

Karma is the universes balancing that you experience within this life. Dharma is your soul’s purpose of experience in this life which is in balance with your soul but unlike karma not necessarily in balance with this life, it is in balance with all your souls experience, evolution, and growth. An example of dharma is how people feel they are often treated unfairly throughout their lives and still others claim incredible luck.  

Knowing and understanding your karma and dharma can help it work for you. For example, if you find yourself constantly financially challenged even when you do everything right, chances are this is an indication of a karmic or dharma challenge which you are meant to face in this life. By investigating what your other challenges are you can over come the previous and in a way cancel them out.  

What others may think of as a blessing may not be a blessing at all. How many smart, beautiful women are single without the love of their life because they intimidate most men in some way? It is amazing how many wonderful caring people give so much to others that they neglect themselves and suffer. Being psychic is supposed to be a gift but let me tell you – it is far from easy to live with! So with this, rethink what you may see as gifts in yourself and others. Any of the afore mentioned, used properly, can help overcome a financial challenge in the example.

By using our karma and dharma in balance we lessen the impact of hard lessons and rather than suffering without we can rejoice in the experience of our dharma in a more balanced state within our lives now. Elevating our level of awareness and practicing non-judgment also helps us to see what it is that life is trying to teach us rather than being beat over the head with one painful experience repeated over and over in different ways because we didn’t “get it” the first, second, or one hundredth time.

Guaranteed, you have never been older than you are right now so get it right as quickly as possible and get moving on to bigger and better things as quickly as possible.  If the thought of figuring out your karma and dharma on your own is not a task you feel comfortable with doing, you are wise. Often when we look at ourselves and our lives through our own eyes we are blind to the perspectives of others and the universe with only our experiences upon which to draw our conclusion. Also, we have to remember we are looking for challenges within ourselves so we are already challenged in that area. An honest second opinion of someone who has already mastered our challenges is a great value.

Very few psychics know how to do karma and dharma reading (of course I am one that does and offer it as part of my Manifestation class that I teach). This is the quickest way to identify the balancing act most effective for your life. However, as a fair warning, this is not always an easy session as it will be focusing on your challenges first. What is important is to remember and focus on what brings balance and your empowerment for your manifesting your highest and best destiny possible which is the true secrete to living an outstanding life of fulfillment and purpose for your souls evolution on its journey home.

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Here is a question we may all ask at one point in time or another, “Why am I manifesting the ‘little’ things while waiting for the bigger?” It seems as though the things we really want take forever and are more difficult to manifest while the things we don’t care that much about materialize almost instantly.
Why is it easier for the Universe to give us banana cake but not the prosperity to purchase all the banana cakes we could ever desire? Why is it easier for the Universe to give us a book on leadership, just because we’ve been thinking about it, but not the executive-level promotion that we’ve wanted to actually apply that leadership?
The error lies in my question. It’s not that the Universe ‘gives’ us anything more easily than something else. It’s that our level of belief is pure with one creation and contaminated with the other. The laws of creation are always working on the same consistent, immutable and impersonal laws of physics day in and day out, without regard to the magnitude of the physical mass of the desired object.
However, most of us don’t have a whole lot of attachment to whether we get ‘princess parking’ but we do have a whole lot of attachment to whether or not we win that lottery, get our mortgage paid, or put food on our kid’s table!
Here’s what you can do to start making the BIG creations as easy and effortless as the little creations: Practice the Law of Detachment. It’s easy to manifest a cappuccino, unless of course we are dying of thirst!
It’s easy to manifest something. unless of course we fear that if we don’t get it, we will never be happy, be a failure, die unfulfilled, etc. These are just a sampling of the limiting beliefs that most of us share to some degree.
When we feel ‘afraid’ we know we are attached. When we are attached to the outcome, we cannot manifest it easily because vibrationally we are simply not in alignment with that creation. Therefore, the first step in manifesting the ‘bigger’ things easier is to detach from the outcome. This feels like truly making peace with what is:
“I am at peace with whatever happens. I know that all is well and in Divine Order.”
It feels like being willing to never have what you want:
“I am willing to trust that the Divine has my best interest in mind and therefore, if it’s meant to be that I never ‘get this’, then so be it. I trust in the Divine.”
It feels like being willing to have all that you want:
“I am willing to have my desire fulfilled in Divine Order and Divine Timing now.”
If you continue to feel afraid to let go, then you will need to use EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), meditation, visualizations and/or affirmations until you can be at peace with letting it go and trusting in the Divine.
Being at peace does NOT mean resigning yourself to not having what you want. Here’s your distinction – resignation feels hopeless while peace feels hopeful.
If you feel despondent or any shade of sad or negative, then you are still attached. Continue working your ‘thoughts and emotions’ around until you can be at PEACE.
The second thing you can do is to start handing more of the bigger things over to God (the Big U, the Divine).
It is not your responsibility to ‘make things happen’ it is God’s. Let spirit do its job and get out of the way. It’s okay to command and demand; let the Universe know that you want a relationship and you expect it now.
Tell the Divine that you fully expect wealth immediately and then prepare to receive it. (This takes some practice but you’ll like the results – SAY to this MOUNTAIN MOVE and it will!)
The third thing you can do is to get clear about what you really want. Most of the time our big dreams are overarching ideas without very many details. We spend very little time and attention actually developing the vision of what this ‘dream’ would look like in our lives. The Big U gives us bits and pieces of our Big-Dream-Vision because that’s all we ever order. Sit down, write out what you want, and create a Masterpiece – not a stick figure!
If you will practice detachment, hand more of your ‘to-do’ list over to God and add detail, specifics, and fine brushstrokes to your masterpiece, then your bigger dreams will show up with great ease with every day.
You are a Divine Child of God, start acting like it!

Includes a BONUS CD on the Law of Attraction!       This Leading Edge work by Esther and Jerry Hicks, who present The Teachings of Abraham, will help you understand every relationship you are currently involved in as well as every relationship you have ever experienced.       This book uncovers a myriad of false premises that are at the heart of every uncomfortable relationship issue, and guides you to a clear understanding of the powerful creative Vortex that has already assembled the relationships that you have desired. Abraham will show you how to enter that Vortex, where you will rendezvous with everything and everyone you have been looking for.       Abraham says: “It is our desire to help you to solve the mystery of those seemingly impossible relationships; to sort out the details of joyously sharing your planet with billions of others; to rediscover the beauty of your differences; and, most of all, to reestablish the most important relationsh (more…)

Time and Humans Experience Change.

Somewhere in time, Humans seem to have lost their way. People have forgotten there true selves. What would be your response if you continually heard your son complaining that he just wasn’t good enough to be successful. That he was hampered in some way and success was for only a chosen few. What would you say to him? “Son, you can make it”, or possibly “I know you have it in you to be successful”. Perhaps you already are in a similar situation.

Is wisdom the answer?

What piece of wisdom would you advise for him or anyone else in the same situation? Could you stand eye to eye with your son or daughter and make a rational argument for his/her future? Perhaps you could. Perhaps he would even take your advise to heart. Unfortunately in all too many cases a parent is left with unanswered questions him/herself.

Our first response is education. Get a good education and everything will naturally be all right. Even though education is important it is only a small part of the success formula.

There other factors

I believe our Lord and Father, wants the same for us. He says he provides yet we don’t understand or trust the offering. We turn away from the obvious and look toward defeat and desperation. People are so filled with mistrust they won’t accept because they fear there are terms. The saying “nothing is free in life” has people afraid to thrive.

Success is good for the Soul

Look what success does for people especially Christian. It teaches them to plan and make something worthwhile out of their lives. It teaches him stewardship, how to handle his bounty no matter what it is. It teaches adversity; in every success story there is some adversity. It teaches people how to be humble in the face of challenge. It teaches relationships; as family and cohorts become a motivating factor in their endeavor. And most of all, it gives a higher reverence and appreciation for Jesus Christ and our creator God, because without them, it would not be possible.

Even hardened non-believers realize and use Gods laws for success. A hidden, deep down truth is, most people are believers at heart, they are just lazy; they don’t get involved in Church because of non-belief it’s because of distraction, laziness and indifference. They just don’t get it and over the years have built up a callousness of life. It’s like computers, some people get it and some don’t but all are exposed to them.

The Inner self must be happy

Over the years it has become evident that the inner person is the key to success. The satisfying of spirit is the ultimate goal in any success challenge. Materially, it doesn’t make any difference, it’s only superficial. When that deep down hunger is satisfied, that’s when you know success has been accomplished.

The law is the law

Here are six of twelve laws that if followed will make you a more successful person.

1. The Law of Relationships – Imminence

Relationships is the number one law of God. He wants us to experience life to its’ fullest and our relationships play a great part in that order. When we experience good relationships with those around us we naturally are happier and consequently more prospers.

2. The Law of Attentiveness

We must be aware of our surroundings as well as our relationships. Being aware is spending the time necessary to attend to situations as they arise. Attentiveness broadens the scoop of attention to include the details of all conditions. Pay attention to details, is important to assure you experience all aspects of a challenge.

3. The Law of Information – knowing

We live in an information age and those who don’t keep up will be left behind. Information is power and power, when correctly applied, leads to success. You must know the rules of the game before you can play it. Stay informed, and productive.

4. The Law of Human Magnetism – Attraction

Magnetism is one of those obscure laws people seem to overlook. Through your demeanor, you can draw people and success to you. Your character is your brand and your brand is what is recognized by other people. In product marketing, good branding is essential to the product’s success. It’s the same with people. They must be accepted by their peers in order to tread the path of success.

5. The Law of Desire – Passion

Aha, passion the love of the game, the attraction of the mind. You must have a passion for what you are doing. Donald Trump says, “Passion is essential in the quest for success.” You must love your chosen field of endeavor, or else compliancy will set in and destroy your efforts.

6. The Law of Fortitude – Longevity

Most all successful people endured good and bad times before they became successful. Success does not happen overnight, it is a process. Success is a progressive act that occurs over a time span of days, months and years. There is no quick fix. If you are impatient, get a job, don’t chase success because you will give up before you catch it.

The fact is this, everyone is equal in the beginning. Some are born into and are exposed to success principles early in life. Some people are exposed to defeatism and become oppressed in their thinking. All are capable in the end. Success is a frame of mind an elusive lover that will leave you for another if not well attended. You must court success, being diligent and responsive to her demands.

She stands proud and self assured, waiting for a suitable suitor. She can be fickle and stubborn in her relationships, casting away even the most determined of suitors. A person who courts success must be determined and aggressive in his/her quest. He/she must not fall pray to false assurances and kisses of promises.

In the next chapter, we will discuses:

• The Law of Negotiation

• The Law of obedience

• The Law of perception

• The law of Direction

• The Law of Planning

• The Law of preparedness

• The Law of increase

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Success is a Mindset

Success is a mindset. What constitutes success for one person may not be for another. Success also spends broad spectrums encompassing societies as well as world events. So success is not simply an individual experience, it is an human emotion and a mechanical result at the same time.

For many, success is a driving force which propels them toward satisfaction or completion. There can be no satisfaction without completion because the desired result is satisfaction.

Satisfaction is an Internal Response

For the most part, satisfaction is an internal response. It lets you know when an action is approved. Success is approval or acceptance of a completed action. This says, success cannot be possible without some form of action. If action is the force of success then stimulus is its fuel. Stimulus occurs from passion, desire, or need, which stems from fear, love, necessity, or craving. All of these are factors which accommodate success.

The Eternal Quest For Success

Most articles on success deal with how to make a plan, the importance of commitment or making choices. Literally tens of thousands of articles, books, courses, seminars, retreats just to name a few, have picked success apart piece by peace. Success has been analyzed and studied for years with mostly the same results. Class room study does not make a successful person. It may be a contributor but not an end result

Here are seven more laws that drive success.

1. The Law of Negotiation – Agreement

In some instance, negotiation is necessary to gain success. When working with someone who holds power, you may have to negotiate for position. A good negotiator can initiate terms, bargain for arrangement, and satisfy agreement. The need to be a good negotiator is imperative in your quest for success.

2. The Law of obedience – Faithfulness

Lack of obedience is the number one killer of success. When a person can’t be true to his/her promise, the result is failure. Obedience is being true to the cause. When a statement is made, obedience carries it through.

3. The Law of perception – Realization

Without perception there is no realization. Perception is the understanding or view of a particular account. Your perception of the sought after goal draws a picture of desire for it. If you perceive it to be undesirable, there is no reasoning for acquiring If you perceive it to be worthwhile or worthy, then desire becomes action which becomes success.

4. The law of Direction

Another common reason for failure is loss of direction or no direction in the first place. You would not fire off in a rocket to the moon without first mapping the course and you can’t obtain complete success without first mapping how to get there. First you have to define the goal, set a course and follow the directions on how to get there. A goal becomes easy if you simply lay out its’ directions. Making a map helps but isn’t worth anything if you don’t follow directions. Like putting together a toy for your child, if you don’t follow the manufacture’s directions it will take longer to put it together or possibly you won’t assemble it at all. Be prepared to follow directions.

5. The Law of Planning

Planning for success gets you prepared for the journey. Your plan is your signature of acceptance for the realization of the goal. Success is a result of planning. I know, it’s been said a million times before, but that’s because it is true. A truth is always a truth and worthy of repeating. Take the time to devise a plan for success. Plan for exiting if things go wrong. Plan every step in the journey.

6. The Law of preparedness

Being prepared armors you with a sword of defense. Preparedness is protection against any foreseeable and unforeseeable events that might take place on your mission for success. The most well prepared person is the one who will win the battle and ultimately the war.

7. The Law of increase

The law of increase is one of God’s biggest laws. Every success is an exercise in expansion. The universe, population, highways, cities everything either expands or stagnates and dies. Success is a result or accumulation of expended efforts which results in satisfaction. Boy, didn’t that sound technical?

Natural Laws Govern Humans

These laws of God, given to Man are inborn forces ready to be used. Because man was created with God like qualities so he/she also is to implement these laws of promise. In God’s creation, sounds, tastes, sight, feel, emotion, imagination, compassion, and pleasure are all regulated to satisfy man’s every need.

God may have put a threshold on the senses of man but He didn’t remove the desire to excel. This impulsion to succeed drives humans to experience the creation through his/her relationship with it.

The Door to Opportunity is always open

While the rewards of life hinge on doors of opportunity someone still has to swing them open. There is no one simple answer to all the problems of the world, there are only responses to questions. Mediocrity deprives man of just rewards while the inner man, (spirit) cries for freedom. Regrettably, many people have no desire to succeed, living lives of desperation that are dull, drab and uneventful.

Wake up and Enjoy Life

They never truly wake up from their self-made fate. I know a man who died and they revived him. He said it was like waking up for the first time. His life experience changed in a heartbeat. Everything was new and fresh, and he saw life in an entirely new light.

Because his perception was from another place, he was able to see the opportunity of a second chance afford him. Colors became more vibrant sounds were crisper and everywhere he turned he saw opportunity. Before he saw only survival where potential reward was. God had gotten his attention in a very distinctive way.

Don’t fall into the arms of complacency. Make success your top priority.

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