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Enhance your power to manifest the life of your dreams using these ten creative methods:
1) Keep the end in mind. Ask yourself, what specific quality of life will the object of my desire bring to me? Why do I want this? Will it bring more Love, Harmony, Joy, Peace, Wisdom or Prosperity? Once you identify your real goal, do your best to assimilate that quality without the object and you will be deliberating achieving a vibrational harmony with the object you desired in the first place. When you acquire vibrational harmony or magnetic sameness with your desire – the object of your desire or something better HAS to come into your life – for it is the Law!
2) Identify what you want. The number one rule to Manifesting your Dreams is to “keep your eye on the ball.” The Universe does not process negatives – only energy. Therefore the question to ponder is “What do I want?” The question is NOT “What do I not want?” except to identify more of what you DO want.
3) Expect your dreams to come true. Expectation propels your desire and opens the runway for your dreams to land quickly, easily and gently. Additionally, with expectation as your fire, you will be less likely to run out of “desire fuel”!
4) Imagine it in the now. Imagine how it FEELS to have what you desire RIGHT NOW! Abraham through Jerry and Esther Hicks says, “Your point of attraction is now.” Therefore, whatever you are feeling and focused upon right now is what you are in vibrational harmony with and are attracting into your life.
5) Be energy efficient – be conscious of your “energy.” Keep in mind that like energy attracts like energy – therefore “what you sow you shall reap.” Feeling the lack of something only attracts more “lack of that something.” On the other hand, deliberately choosing positive feelings and focal points will keep you in alignment with your desires.
6) Maintain a laser focus on what you want. Give it your attention. Use tools such as setting goals, writing and repeating affirmations, visualization, gratitude journalizing, creative collage, treasure mapping, creation wheels and meditation. Relax, listen to yourself, state the affirmation and visualize the accompanying action and feeling. Remember, “Wherever you go, there you are!” – therefore, BE mentally and emotionally where you want to GO physically.
7) Be unattached. Maintain your desires but be unattached to the specifics of the outcome. Never limit the Universe by being disappointed if it isn’t in your life right now or isn’t coming as fast as you think it should. Be careful of being attached to the how, when, where, and who details. Turn it over to God and release your dream with statements such as “This or something better is manifesting in my life right now. I let it go and prepare to receive my good.” ALLOW the universe to let it flow to you easily!
Go on an appreciation rampage and preserve an attitude of gratitude. Relish the moment and be appreciative of all that you have. Be aware of every opportunity that comes your way and honor where you are on your path. Look at each experience as neither good nor bad, but as an opportunity to learn and grow. Don’t scold yourself when you make a mistake. Develop an affirmative statement describing your correct performance in the present tense, and allow your light to shine! See through the eyes of love. Choose to live in joy and spread it to all you meet!
9) Let Go of the past and follow your heart! Once and for all. Release the fears and prejudices that come from previous experiences. “Heaven’s not beyond the clouds; it’s just beyond our fears.” Regret and fear are the thieves that rob us of today. Accept responsibility for your life. Know that there are no victims. This means really forgive and forget, live without opinions, throw out your old baggage and live fully present in the moment at hand while following your heart’s guidance and desires for tomorrow. Your heart will never speak in fear – only in love. Follow your heart and you will have all that you desire.
10) Dream big! Ask for more than you “need.” You are the child of a rich father in heaven – claim your Divine birthright to unlimited Prosperity, Peace, Joy, Love and Harmony. Ask for all that you desire (in alignment with your values) and have the faith to relax and enjoy the journey. “I tell you the Truth, If ye have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, move from here to there: And it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” Matthew 17:20

Here is a question we may all ask at one point in time or another, “Why am I manifesting the ‘little’ things while waiting for the bigger?” It seems as though the things we really want take forever and are more difficult to manifest while the things we don’t care that much about materialize almost instantly.
Why is it easier for the Universe to give us banana cake but not the prosperity to purchase all the banana cakes we could ever desire? Why is it easier for the Universe to give us a book on leadership, just because we’ve been thinking about it, but not the executive-level promotion that we’ve wanted to actually apply that leadership?
The error lies in my question. It’s not that the Universe ‘gives’ us anything more easily than something else. It’s that our level of belief is pure with one creation and contaminated with the other. The laws of creation are always working on the same consistent, immutable and impersonal laws of physics day in and day out, without regard to the magnitude of the physical mass of the desired object.
However, most of us don’t have a whole lot of attachment to whether we get ‘princess parking’ but we do have a whole lot of attachment to whether or not we win that lottery, get our mortgage paid, or put food on our kid’s table!
Here’s what you can do to start making the BIG creations as easy and effortless as the little creations: Practice the Law of Detachment. It’s easy to manifest a cappuccino, unless of course we are dying of thirst!
It’s easy to manifest something. unless of course we fear that if we don’t get it, we will never be happy, be a failure, die unfulfilled, etc. These are just a sampling of the limiting beliefs that most of us share to some degree.
When we feel ‘afraid’ we know we are attached. When we are attached to the outcome, we cannot manifest it easily because vibrationally we are simply not in alignment with that creation. Therefore, the first step in manifesting the ‘bigger’ things easier is to detach from the outcome. This feels like truly making peace with what is:
“I am at peace with whatever happens. I know that all is well and in Divine Order.”
It feels like being willing to never have what you want:
“I am willing to trust that the Divine has my best interest in mind and therefore, if it’s meant to be that I never ‘get this’, then so be it. I trust in the Divine.”
It feels like being willing to have all that you want:
“I am willing to have my desire fulfilled in Divine Order and Divine Timing now.”
If you continue to feel afraid to let go, then you will need to use EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), meditation, visualizations and/or affirmations until you can be at peace with letting it go and trusting in the Divine.
Being at peace does NOT mean resigning yourself to not having what you want. Here’s your distinction – resignation feels hopeless while peace feels hopeful.
If you feel despondent or any shade of sad or negative, then you are still attached. Continue working your ‘thoughts and emotions’ around until you can be at PEACE.
The second thing you can do is to start handing more of the bigger things over to God (the Big U, the Divine).
It is not your responsibility to ‘make things happen’ it is God’s. Let spirit do its job and get out of the way. It’s okay to command and demand; let the Universe know that you want a relationship and you expect it now.
Tell the Divine that you fully expect wealth immediately and then prepare to receive it. (This takes some practice but you’ll like the results – SAY to this MOUNTAIN MOVE and it will!)
The third thing you can do is to get clear about what you really want. Most of the time our big dreams are overarching ideas without very many details. We spend very little time and attention actually developing the vision of what this ‘dream’ would look like in our lives. The Big U gives us bits and pieces of our Big-Dream-Vision because that’s all we ever order. Sit down, write out what you want, and create a Masterpiece – not a stick figure!
If you will practice detachment, hand more of your ‘to-do’ list over to God and add detail, specifics, and fine brushstrokes to your masterpiece, then your bigger dreams will show up with great ease with every day.
You are a Divine Child of God, start acting like it!