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Starting an Online Business can be an eye opening experience, or more likely, an eye popping experience for most people. With each idea or training technique or video I watch, yet another thought crosses my mind of an ever increasing way to move my business forward. They all sound great! I’ve read, taken notes, printed material after material, and read and reread article after article in hopes of gaining a greater understanding of this online marketing business thing. These so-called experts and their ideas on paper, excuse me, ideas online, are smothered on every site you visit, every search engine, download, even online video you come across. They all want the same thing, your undivided attention. In my humble opinion, some of these experts have extremely valuable information to pass on, and others are simply wasting your time. Or so, I first thought. Just maybe I am wrong. Maybe all the information, reviews, videos, downloads, and ideas from the experts could be of use to me in some minute way down the road in order for me to grow my business. I have done the research and continue to do so to this day as I write this article, and I believe because of this effort I will be successful.
In addition to what you take from the rest of the experts on the net, I have a few more ideas of my own I would like to pass on to you. I think you will like them. I call them my Four P’s for success. Set your mind totally focused on staying ahead of the game by exercising patience, a positive attitude, a passionate desire to learn, and a planned out execution to exceed your goals and success will come. Below I will share with you two of my Four P’s for success, exercising patience, and positive attitude in part one of two articles.
1) Exercising Patience
Patience, as defined in Wikipedia, is “the state of endurance under difficult circumstances which can mean persevering in the face of delay or provocation without becoming annoyed or upset.” I love the meaning used here when it says persevering in the face of delay. Well, each of us has faced a delay of some kind or another in respect to how quickly we expect to achieve a certain level of success. I am probably right when I say all of as entrepreneurs get into the next best Online Business in hopes of returning a profit as quickly as possible. Sure that would be great if we could just snap our fingers and have money start rolling in. For most starters, it doesn’t happen this way, and did not happen this way for me either. I have always said, “If you are making money too easily at the start, you probably are not going to be able to sustain it in the long run.” It just doesn’t happen that way under normal circumstances in any business for that matter. Do not ever let anyone ever tell you or make you think that running a business from home is easy because you are being fooled. Working your business requires you to be incredibly patient for those sales to begin rolling in. If you are able to exercise this type of patience I am referring to, you will be able to cope with your eventual success in time much better.
2) Positive Attitude
Now to attain the success you want, you must have a positive approach, or mind set with your Online Business. This is my next P for success, positive attitude. When I started my own Online Business, I, as most people are, was extremely skeptical in getting into something “foreign” with very little insight on what it took to run a business of this nature. Sure, you can do your homework, research what has claimed to work for others, read reviews on what is worth your time and money to get into, or may even know someone personally who has done well for themselves working from home. But, in reality, what may work for others may not work for you at all, right? Wrong, it just may! I believe it takes one characteristic as far as your approach to a new business, whether online or not, and that is a positive attitude. That is it! No matter what happens, no matter how long it takes you or you think it should take you, no matter what the obstacles you encounter, no matter what negative feedback you get thrown at you from others, no matter what failures you face, by keeping a positive outlook you can and will get through it. I do not care where you come from, or where you are now, this type of attitude is the key to being successful. As I said earlier, skepticism is the minds of just about everyone who thinks of getting into a new business, much less a business online. However, with a positive attitude you will be amazed at what you can accomplish and how pleased you will find your results to be.
I have outlined two of my Four P’s for success in any Online Business you venture to start or join. Patience during setbacks, and having a positive attitude in everything you do are vital to being successful. These Four P’s I believe will automatically put value in your business whether you are a beginner, intermediate, or expert online marketer. In addition to the training techniques, research, and information you have already gained from experts in the field, my Four P’s for success should help boost your business forward that much more. I hope you will try these Four P’s in your own Online Business and just maybe, as it has done for me, your experience will go from an eye popping one back to an eye opening one!

Hi, my name is Dancy Pace. If you enjoyed reading about my first two P’s for success I just wrote about, then please join me by reading my next article entitled, “My Four P’s for Success in any Online Business! – Part Two” to hear the rest. I welcome you to try these two P’s for success out in your own Online Business. In addition, If you would like to try bettering your own life both financially and independently, then click here at a better life to come !
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A traditional success program is any product, program or system designed to show you “how to do something.” As we’ve already seen, this is a good idea â?? after all, if you want to do something, like drive a car, tie your shoes, or make a million dollars, it makes sense to learn “how” to do it.

So in traditional success programs, they teach you what I call the How-To’s of Success. It was perfectly logical to teach human beings how to do the thing called “succeed” â?? because, as I’ve already shown you, everyone wants to do it!

But here’s where we run into a little problem â?? a $411 Billion problem. With Americans spending more than $11 Billion a year on self-help products individually â?? and with the problems associated with this issue costing corporate America over $400 Billion a year â?? you would think that no one would ever be stuck, right? And that everyone who’d been using these programs would be living the life of their dreams, right?

Well, it sounds good. Unfortunately, we know it’s just not true. We all know people who appear to have everything in place to be wildly successful, yet who are still holding themselves back.

The answer to why traditional success programs have failed so many people lies in what I’ve already shown you. Traditional success teachers have given us the How-To’s of Success because they made a critical assumption, an assumption they made without ever thinking about it, because it was totally illogical to think otherwise. And the assumption they made was this:

Traditional success programs gave us the How-To’s of Success, because they assumed that you and I and everyone else had more Why-To’s of Success than Why-Not-To’s of Success.

They actually had it half right. Everyone does have more Why-To’s of Success than Why-Not-To’s of Success â?? but only on the Conscious level!

The problem does not lie in learning more “How-To’s” of Success. The problem lies in uncovering your Why-Not-To’s of Success. Because your Why-Not-To’s of Success are essentially invisible to you, because they exist almost exclusively in your Subconscious mind.

Here is the most amazing part about all this â?? and it represents the key to your freedom, success and fulfillment:

You can know all of the How-To’s of Success, but if you have more Why-Not-To’s of Success than Why-To’s of Success â?? even if those Why-Not-To’s exist on the Subconscious level â?? you will not allow yourself to succeed to your full potential, no matter how many How-To’s of Success you know.

The Real Laws of Attraction: Why Positive Affirmations Donâ??t Work! “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Dr. Wayne Dyer Author: The Power of IntentionsOverall Your Life is a Reflection of What You Really Think and Feel You Deserveâ??No More, No Less! In the past couple of years, several books on the subject of Attraction have been published. But recently some new thinking has been put forth to refute some of the past motivational dogma. Do you know individuals who donâ??t achieve the levels they would like to or that every time they take a step forward, they seem to take a step back? I will outline a couple reasons why that might be happening. Science has proven that everything in life is made up of energy; our personal lives are no different. Have you ever walked into a room with tension so thick, someone later said, “you could have cut it with a knife”? Or when one of your friends has met the love of their life and you say, “you look so happy, you are glowing.” How can we not only see the emotion but FEEL it, too? Welcome to the science and Law of Attraction. Each of us is like a magnet; we are either giving off positive or negative energy/attraction. There are no neutral magnets. What we are attracting into our lives is reflective of which end of the magnet we are activating. You attract to your life whatever you give your attention to. If you focus on the fact that you have little money, poor health, or few meaningful relationships, the Law of Attraction will respond by giving you more of what you are focusing on. Of course, most people donâ??t really want more of the things they lack, but because they are putting focus and energy toward the negative, more negativity happens. You can not not think of something. At this very moment, I ask you not to think of a black bear. Please donâ??t picture a black bear, black bear, black bear, or a black bear. Almost everyone reading this has visualized a black bear. So just as in the black bear your thoughts are your focus. Let me explain. Your language, words, and most importantâ??the feelings (energy)â??behind the words are critical to your intentionally improving your condition. Remember, like a magnet, you are always attracting energy. The question is: are you being a positive or negative magnet? The research is clear that our conscious and unconscious mind filters out the words donâ??t, not, and no. Just like the black bear example, the statements of Donâ??t be late, Donâ??t forget, or Donâ??t panic result in your mindâ??s focusing on the wrong things. Whatever you give your attention or focus to, you attract into your life, whether you want them or not. Rephrasing the way we think and what we say (the words) are critical to moving forward. For example, you might go from “Itâ??s hard to find a partner” to “In the past, it was hard to find a partner” or “It is easy to find a partner.” Life is about duality; there is an opposite to everything. Poor is the opposite of wealthy, healthy the opposite to unhealthy, and so on. To take advantage of the Law of Attraction, first you must be clear about what you want. The best way to determine what you want is to identify those things in your life that you no longer want and then make a list of what you do want. Clarity is a very important part to this process, so the sharper your thoughts and statements, the better your future. The next step is to be aware how each of your actions and choices is making you feel. It is not enough to have the right words; it is essential to understand the emotions that your words and thoughts cause you to have. The energy created by the emotions fulfills the Law of Attraction. If something on your list irritates you, remove it or keeping modifying it until you identify what energizes you toward a positive way of thinking, then do more of this. Why do most affirmations not work? In the past we have been taught to make statements in the positive and in the present tense to move us toward a new goal or objective, such as “I am a millionaire” or “I have a healthy body weight of ______.” Most of us, myself included, have not had a high level of success with this process. Why? If attraction works equally on the emotional energy level as with the spoken word, what do you think your emotional energy would be around affirmation statements that you feel might be unattainable or even untrue? Your internal feelings/vibrations of doubt will come through in your affirmation process. This information contradicts most teachings in the area of affirmations and explains why many affirmations have not worked. Your mind identifies the affirmation as a lie and your energy and attraction process supports the fact that the statement is a lie. There is, however, a break-through alternative. Credit for this breakthrough concept goes to Michael J. Losier, an expert in the field the Law of Attraction. His process is to get us to create desire statements that acknowledge we are in the process of becoming a millionaire. So rather than saying “I am a Millionaire,” try a new format of “process and projection”: “I am in the process of attracting an ideal financial situation that allows me to do and enjoy all the things that bring joy into my life.” That is just an example but already I suspect you are experiencing how your mind and energy would be more accepting and positive to the latter statement. As you progress, update your statements to reflect your new emotional response to each of your “going forward” statements. This single concept significantly improved my personal energy and attraction success. There is a final part to the Law of Attraction process: remove any limiting beliefs that would hinder your success. The first steps will work when this next element of allowing is deployed. “Allowing is the absence of doubt and doubt is often created from limiting beliefs. A limiting belief is a repetitive thought that prevents you from attracting your desire.” Michael J. Losier Author: Law of Attraction Example: your current belief or thought is that there are no more great real estate deals; they are all gone. You want to challenge this belief by asking yourself some questions to replace this limiting belief position. Q: Has anyone in the country attracted a great real estate deal lately? A: Yes. Q: How many people are doing that today, yesterday, last month? A: It is possible that hundreds of people found great real estate deals and that hundreds will continue this year. You end up with a statements like these. â?¢ Hundreds if not thousands of people found and invested in great real estate deals last year. â?¢ Thousands of people will find and invest excellent real estate deals in the next several months. â?¢ Every day hundreds of great real estate investment opportunities become available. Can you see how you can, via these questions, reduce and eliminate your doubt? Of course, much more can be written about the Law of Attraction. Start by implementing what you have learned and continue. If you are already using this technology, make sure you are teaching others. To attract more into your life of what you want and less of what you donâ??t want, follow these action steps. 1. Acknowledge that your emotions are part of the Law of Attraction. 2. Remember that what you focus on, you will attractâ??wanted or unwanted. 3. Be aware of the energy in which you are living: positive or negative. 4. Avoid the words donâ??t, not and no. Today pay attention your language; become conscious of donâ??t, not and no. Then make a conscious effort to eliminate them from your word choices. (Note: Of course you will still use these words such as no more coffee, No Thank You etc. but in the context of wanting something.) 5. Be clear about what you want and desire. Simply list on one page your desires. This is not a goal list but your desires in the major areas of your life. 6. Words are not enough; you must also feel good about the words. Rephrase your positive affirmations to I desire or I am in the process statements. 7. You must remove doubt before you will experience your desires. Question your doubts using the process of creating allowing statements. Most of our doubt is false; identify and challenge yourself that others are being successful in your desire. 8. Stay focused on what you want, not what you donâ??t want. No black bears, right? Until next time, keep “Living on Purpose.” Ken Keis

Down in your luck? Finding success elusive? You can have success in almost any situation you wish. You can make it happen. Success is no more than a state of mind turned into reality.
How do you actually achieve success and turn your goals into reality lets find out.
What Is Success?
Success is obviously a subjective issue. For one person success is one thing, for another, another. However, if you have some realistic view of any situation, and a clear goal you can find success.
Setting Goals
If you goal is to fly to the moon, obviously you are outside the sphere of realistic goal setting.
Set your goals at first in areas that are achievable. For example, getting a better job, finding a new partner, better friends, or simply making more money, set your goal and a time for it so you have conceivable limits
With set goals, with time constraints, you have now had to work silently and steadily in the direction of the goal. If you mind is set, and clear, you will come nearer and nearer the goal, and will soon achieve it. This is one of life’s lesser known secrets.
Begin with small easy Victories
In your search for success, start with some easy victories. It gets you in the winning and successful frame of mind.
Pick something that is easily achievable but needing doing.
Do it, succeed, and then move on to something more difficult. Step by step you will become in the success frame of mind.
Where there is mind set for victory and success the battle is half won from the beginning. If you think you can’t do something, the answer is already evident. You can’t and you won’t.
Success needs the mind set of “I can do it. I will do it. I will succeed, no matter what it takes, I will succeed”
Repeat this words to yourself constantly. Remind yourself you are success bound, and you will be.
Success and Obstacles to Its Achievement
Obstacles can be changed to stepping stones. If you think of the obstacles as insurmountable, it will be. Use them as stepping stones and you will move closer to your goal.
You may need to be more disciplined, or more cautious. Be so, and use the obstacle as a tool for success, not a barrier from it.
Move on
As the smaller victories are achieved, choose more challenging ones. Keep to reality but aim higher. Armed with your earlier victories and a success frame of mind, you will approach the new goals with a better chance of success.
Do not give up or stop mid-way. If its success you wish, you must persevere. Without perseverance, and tenacity, you will find the road to success insurmountable. Develop your staying power. Move on from one point to the other, keeping your goals in mind. You cannot do other than to achieve.
Managing Set-Backs
Your road to success will have set-backs. These must not stop your progress. Go around them, take them in stride, but do not stop. If a carpenter breaks a nail he does not stop building.
It was a set-back, but there is a new nail, and renewed effort to keep going .Manage your set-backs. Limit their damage and move on.
Success is Yours
If you really wish to be successful and follow the guidance above, you will be. It’s a fact of life. Never give up if its success you wish.
Look to those great men and women that became successful. Their lives are models for you, and you will see they never gave up.

Recently, Susan Boyle, an unemployed forty-seven year old single woman from the small village of Blackburn, Scotland decided to compete in the television program, “Britain’s Got Talent.” She did not look like the typical “star quality” contestant. So, when she first walked out on the stage, the audience and judges started laughing and giving her cynical looks. Then she sang. The audience and judges were instantly won over and she continued to the next round of competition. Because the program was on television and the video of her program appeared on YouTube, she won over millions of additional fans with her unique talent. Whether she wins the competition or not, she already won by living her dream. By taking the bold step of competing, Susan won over millions while creating unlimited opportunities to sing her song of success.

So I ask you the following:

Are You Singing Your Song of Success?

Are you letting your song of success go silent? The following are five secrets that will guarantee that your song of success is heard and you can also live your dreams:

Apply the five success secrets at your business, your career, and your life in the face of all obstacles and you can live your dreams. Susan is singing her song of success; why not let your song be heard?